Why People Love Anal Play
Anal play has become one of the fastest-growing categories in sexual wellness — and for good reason. The area is rich with nerve endings, making it a source of intense pleasure for people of all genders. With the right approach, knowledge, and products, anal exploration can be a deeply satisfying addition to your intimate life.
Essential Safety First
Always use lubricant. Unlike other areas, the body doesn’t self-lubricate here. A thick, high-quality lubricant is essential for comfort and safety. We recommend starting with a water-based anal lubricant — they’re compatible with all toy materials and easy to clean up.
Only use toys with a flared base. This is the single most important safety rule. Toys designed for anal play have a flared base, retrieval cord, or ring that prevents them from being fully inserted. Never use a toy without this feature.
Go slow and communicate. Relaxation is key. Start with external touch, use plenty of lube, and let the receiving partner set the pace entirely. If anything feels uncomfortable, stop and adjust.
Best Beginner Anal Toys
Small Butt Plugs — Start Here
A small, tapered silicone butt plug is the ideal first purchase. Look for smooth surfaces, a gradual taper, and a T-bar or flared base. Starter plug sets with graduated sizes let you progress comfortably at your own pace. Browse our butt plug collection.
Anal Beads — Graduated Sensation
Anal beads feature a series of graduated spheres on a flexible shaft. The gentle pop of each bead creates unique waves of pleasure. Silicone beads on a flexible stem are the safest and most comfortable option for beginners. Check out our anal beads range.
Prostate Massagers — Targeted Male Pleasure
Prostate massagers are curved to target the P-spot, often called the “male G-spot.” Many feature vibrating motors for enhanced stimulation. They can deliver some of the most intense orgasms possible. Explore our prostate massager collection.
Choosing the Right Lubricant
For anal play, you need a thicker lubricant that provides lasting cushion. Water-based anal lubes are the safest choice — compatible with all toy materials, condoms, and easy to wash off. Apply generously to both the toy and the body, and reapply as needed. Browse our lubricant collection for anal-specific formulas.
Hygiene and Aftercare
Thorough cleaning is essential. Wash all toys with warm water and antibacterial toy cleaner before and after use. Non-porous materials like silicone, glass, and stainless steel are the most hygienic. Never share toys between partners without proper cleaning or using a fresh barrier.
Start Exploring Safely
Browse our complete Anal Play collection — featuring body-safe toys from trusted brands, all with flared bases and shipped in discreet packaging. Your comfort and safety are our top priorities.