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How to Choose the Right Lubricant: Types, Tips & Our Top Picks

Why Lubricant Matters More Than You Think

Lubricant is the single most underrated product in sexual wellness. The right lube enhances every type of intimate activity — solo play, partnered sex, and toy use alike. It reduces friction, increases sensation, and makes everything more comfortable. Yet many people skip it or grab whatever’s on sale. Let’s fix that.

The Three Main Types of Lubricant

Water-Based Lubricant — The Universal Choice

Water-based lubes are the most versatile option available. They’re compatible with every toy material (including silicone), safe with condoms, and easy to clean up. The downside? They can dry out during extended sessions and may need reapplication. A few drops of water reactivate most water-based formulas instantly.

Best for: Toy play, everyday use, sensitive skin, condom compatibility.

Silicone-Based Lubricant — Long-Lasting Performance

Silicone lubes last significantly longer than water-based options and feel ultra-silky. They’re waterproof, making them the go-to for shower or bath play. However, they should not be used with silicone toys, as they can degrade the surface over time. They also require soap and water for cleanup.

Best for: Shower play, long sessions, partnered intercourse, anal play (without silicone toys).

Hybrid Lubricant — Best of Both Worlds

Hybrid lubes blend water and silicone bases to offer longer-lasting slip with easier cleanup. Most are safe with silicone toys (check the label to confirm). They’re becoming increasingly popular as the technology improves.

Best for: People who want longevity without the full commitment of silicone lube.

What to Avoid in a Lubricant

Steer clear of lubricants containing glycerin (can cause yeast infections), parabens, petroleum-based ingredients, and added sugars. Numbing lubes with benzocaine mask pain signals that protect you from injury — avoid these, especially for anal play. Always choose body-safe, pH-balanced formulas from reputable brands.

Matching Lube to Your Activity

With silicone toys: Water-based only. Silicone-on-silicone causes damage.

Anal play: Choose a thick, cushioning formula — either water-based anal lube or silicone (with non-silicone toys).

With condoms: Water-based or silicone. Never oil-based, as oils degrade latex.

Sensitive skin: Fragrance-free, glycerin-free, water-based formulas with minimal ingredients.

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