Category: Tips & Education

Why Lubricant Matters More Than You Think

Lubricant is the single most underrated product in sexual wellness. The right lube enhances every type of intimate activity — solo play, partnered sex, and toy use alike. It reduces friction, increases sensation, and makes everything more comfortable. Yet many people skip it or grab whatever’s on sale. Let’s fix that.

The Three Main Types of Lubricant

Water-Based Lubricant — The Universal Choice

Water-based lubes are the most versatile option available. They’re compatible with every toy material (including silicone), safe with condoms, and easy to clean up. The downside? They can dry out during extended sessions and may need reapplication. A few drops of water reactivate most water-based formulas instantly.

Best for: Toy play, everyday use, sensitive skin, condom compatibility.

Silicone-Based Lubricant — Long-Lasting Performance

Silicone lubes last significantly longer than water-based options and feel ultra-silky. They’re waterproof, making them the go-to for shower or bath play. However, they should not be used with silicone toys, as they can degrade the surface over time. They also require soap and water for cleanup.

Best for: Shower play, long sessions, partnered intercourse, anal play (without silicone toys).

Hybrid Lubricant — Best of Both Worlds

Hybrid lubes blend water and silicone bases to offer longer-lasting slip with easier cleanup. Most are safe with silicone toys (check the label to confirm). They’re becoming increasingly popular as the technology improves.

Best for: People who want longevity without the full commitment of silicone lube.

What to Avoid in a Lubricant

Steer clear of lubricants containing glycerin (can cause yeast infections), parabens, petroleum-based ingredients, and added sugars. Numbing lubes with benzocaine mask pain signals that protect you from injury — avoid these, especially for anal play. Always choose body-safe, pH-balanced formulas from reputable brands.

Matching Lube to Your Activity

With silicone toys: Water-based only. Silicone-on-silicone causes damage.

Anal play: Choose a thick, cushioning formula — either water-based anal lube or silicone (with non-silicone toys).

With condoms: Water-based or silicone. Never oil-based, as oils degrade latex.

Sensitive skin: Fragrance-free, glycerin-free, water-based formulas with minimal ingredients.

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Why People Love Anal Play

Anal play has become one of the fastest-growing categories in sexual wellness — and for good reason. The area is rich with nerve endings, making it a source of intense pleasure for people of all genders. With the right approach, knowledge, and products, anal exploration can be a deeply satisfying addition to your intimate life.

Essential Safety First

Always use lubricant. Unlike other areas, the body doesn’t self-lubricate here. A thick, high-quality lubricant is essential for comfort and safety. We recommend starting with a water-based anal lubricant — they’re compatible with all toy materials and easy to clean up.

Only use toys with a flared base. This is the single most important safety rule. Toys designed for anal play have a flared base, retrieval cord, or ring that prevents them from being fully inserted. Never use a toy without this feature.

Go slow and communicate. Relaxation is key. Start with external touch, use plenty of lube, and let the receiving partner set the pace entirely. If anything feels uncomfortable, stop and adjust.

Best Beginner Anal Toys

Small Butt Plugs — Start Here

A small, tapered silicone butt plug is the ideal first purchase. Look for smooth surfaces, a gradual taper, and a T-bar or flared base. Starter plug sets with graduated sizes let you progress comfortably at your own pace. Browse our butt plug collection.

Anal Beads — Graduated Sensation

Anal beads feature a series of graduated spheres on a flexible shaft. The gentle pop of each bead creates unique waves of pleasure. Silicone beads on a flexible stem are the safest and most comfortable option for beginners. Check out our anal beads range.

Prostate Massagers — Targeted Male Pleasure

Prostate massagers are curved to target the P-spot, often called the “male G-spot.” Many feature vibrating motors for enhanced stimulation. They can deliver some of the most intense orgasms possible. Explore our prostate massager collection.

Choosing the Right Lubricant

For anal play, you need a thicker lubricant that provides lasting cushion. Water-based anal lubes are the safest choice — compatible with all toy materials, condoms, and easy to wash off. Apply generously to both the toy and the body, and reapply as needed. Browse our lubricant collection for anal-specific formulas.

Hygiene and Aftercare

Thorough cleaning is essential. Wash all toys with warm water and antibacterial toy cleaner before and after use. Non-porous materials like silicone, glass, and stainless steel are the most hygienic. Never share toys between partners without proper cleaning or using a fresh barrier.

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